Opening a can of worms. G and H's responses

G's response
1. Why do you feel the relationship ended?
1. I didn't realize what I had.

2. Why do you think I THINK the relationship ended?
2. I don't know...you were emotionally unavailable?

3. What is my biggest character flaw?
3. You are too laid back.

4. What did I think your biggest flaw (if any) was?
4. I have a hot temper.

5. Was it a rough breakup?
5. Not for you obviously. We haven't talked in 7 years..

6. What did you learn?
6. I had alot to learn. I learned that no matter what I do in a relationship, there is always a second person who has needs that I should be thinking of too.
I've grown emotionally since I knew you and I thank you for ending things when you did.



H's response

1. Why do you feel the relationship ended?
1. We weren't in a committed relationship. We "hung out".

2. Why do you think I THINK the relationship ended?
2. I got totally busted "hanging out" with someone else.

3. What is my biggest character flaw?
3. You put alot into relationships. You are very giving and attentive. Is that
a bad thing? Probably not.

4. What did I think your biggest flaw (if any) was?
4. (She mentioned here that she thought I said alot of "not nice things about
her".) I haven't.

5. Was it a rough breakup?
5. No. We stopped hanging out and that was it.

6. What did you learn?
6. Nothing I can think of at the moment.