Theresa answers some questions.

Theresa emailed back answers to the questions asked earlier.

1. How did you know Chris was the one?
I new Chris was the one because loving him was so overpowering it scared me to death. He was everything I wanted in a man and the person I felt deep down that I loved more than anyone before.

2. What things did your ex try to get you back?
My ex would email me or call me and make promises, try bringing up the good memories, try to make every fight we had done seem like it had made our love stronger, he would make soft threats, put down Chris, yell, cry, and then start it all over. We had drama in our relationship and some insecurity issues and he really knew how to push those buttons.

3. Why was your relationship bad with your ex?
It was bad because he was one person that I was drawn to in my early years, but as I matured, he didn't. He kept trying to make me be who HE wanted. He was extremely stubborn and was good at playing with my emotions. He would be disrespectful, not let me see or talk to certain friends, sometimes be violent in arguements, and he could be SO selfish! Then, he would turn around and we would do amazing things like take flying lessons together, we learned to kickbox, we would go to these fancy clubs, and he even flew me to Europe. During therapy, I realized he was trying to basically blow away the bad by doing overly great things. It causes chemical reactions in your brain that actually confuse your emotions and mask the negativity. He was so bad, but I kept giving him chances.

I hope you don't stay with that ex. Bad things happen when you make bad choices. You are free to do what you want to though, you may choose to make your mistakes, but recognize that it IS indeed a mistake you'll be regretting.

Theresa



Thanks Theresa...and thanks for writing Kim. I hope this helps.