Backlash from Lisa

Lisa wrote:

You were kind of a Dick to Jenny. Not all guys that are nice aren't hot. My boyfriend is totally not hot, but I like him. Jenny's just having troubles finding the best of both worlds. What's wrong with wanting a hot guy who will stick around?

Lisa


Well Lisa, if you meant I was a Dick, as in a man named Richard who likes to go by a shortened version of his name, then I would disagree. However, if you meant I was a dick, as if to mean I was penis-like in my response, I would agree. I am a guy..it's easy. Jenny can have the best of both worlds, but if looks or money are your first priorities, you will be let down every time. Everyone wants attraction, but it shouldn't be the sole reason you're with someone. You said you're in "like" with your boyfriend and he's not hot, so why are you with him? Chances are it's because there is something more.

Looks fade, financial security is always jeopardized, and the only thing we have to fall back on is ourselves. Find a deeper meaning to a relationship. If you've ever broken up with someone for not being hot enough or rich enough, you deserve whatever pot of steaming crap you fall in to...BUT learn from it and grow as a person. Get out of that situation and move on.

Again, not all guys with six packs are dickish and vain bastards. I know many that aren't, but you won't find them flaunting their body or money. Good guys don't do that. Good guys are the ones getting a good night's sleep while the bad guys are out soiling the sheets of women that are looking for the "good guy."

Sean

P.S. You owe your boyfriend an apology.