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Hillary's letter..pt 1

Hillary wrote:

Sean,

I really like your site and I am doing what I can to promote it to all of my friends here at college. We all seem to be at that age where a little advice would go a long way.

Here's my story: I seem to seek out drama in relationships. I don't know why. My parents have always been married, there's been no substance abuse, no sexual issues for me, and I am relatively strong in my faith, and yet, I seem to always find the assholes. I just don't get it. Any insight?

Hill


Well Hillary, this is a relatively loaded question, but it usually stems back to you making bad choices. Are you meeting them at parties or bars? Anyone who goes out to pick up someone under the influence of a substance is not usually someone you will be able to have a healthy relationship with in the first place. If you're meeting them at church, at school, or through friends, you may want to evaluate traits you look for in a potential mate. What are things you look for? Get back to me..

Sean