So I did not get the promotion I was hoping for. I was disappointed to hear that they had hired an external candidate, but was happy to hear that they plan to get me in there as soon a possible.
Getting passed over for a promotion is a difficult thing to deal with, just like being rejected in a budding relationship. Things are exciting and new and you're still feeling your way through dates (interviews, basically), and then you find out that person has passed you over for someone else. It's the sickening drop of disappointment that is the worst...it hits you in your chest and just sits in your gut.
It's not the end though. Instead, it's a chance to learn. You may be disappointed, but if you change that into determination, it will open other doors in the future. Keep your goals in mind and continue working for them, while at the same time making new experiences for yourself.
Sean
